Ukwazisa ingqokelela yethu eyonwabisayo yezinto zokudlala ezimangalisayo, esona sipho sigqibeleleyo seKrisimesi sabantwana kwihlabathi liphela! Njengoko eli xesha leziyunguma lisondela, siyakuqonda ukubaluleka kokuzisa uvuyo kunye nolonwabo kwabancinci. Sikholelwa ukuba uluhlu lwethu lwezinto zokudlala ezincinci kunye nemifanekiso yezilwanyana ethandekayo iya kwenza kanye loo nto.
Amathoyizi ethu amancinci enzelwe ukubamba iintliziyo zabantwana kwaye avuselele intelekelelo yabo. Ingqokelela ifaka uluhlu lwezilwanyana ezithandekayo, ngasinye senziwe ngokuqwalasela iinkcukacha kunye nemibala eqaqambileyo. Ukusuka kwiillama ezincinci ukuya kwiindlovu ezithandekayo, abantwana bakho baya kuba nokudubula besenza ilizwe labo elincinci elizaliswe zezi zidalwa zinomtsalane.
Ayisiyiyo nje imifanekiso yethu emincinci elungele ixesha lokudlala, kodwa yenzela ukongeza okumangalisayo kuyo nayiphi na ingqokelela yezinto zokudlala. Yenziwe ngeplastiki ekumgangatho ophezulu, ezi zinto zokudlala zomelele ziya kumelana neeyure zokudlala ngokucinga ngaphandle kokuphulukana nomtsalane wazo. Umntwana wakho uya kuyonwabela ukubonisa ezi toyi ziqokelelwayo kwiishelufa zabo, ebonisa ubuntu babo obahlukileyo.
Enye yezona zinto zinomdla kwizinto zokudlala zethu ezimangalisayo kukuba ziza kwipakethe engaboniyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba ithoyizi nganye ivalwe ngononophelo ngaphakathi kwebhokisi yokuhlobisa, yongeza into emangalisa kunye nokulindela kumava okunika isipho. Abantwana baya kuzivula ngomdla ezi toythoyi zingaboniyo, bengazi ukuba sesiphi na isilwanyana esithandekayo esibalindileyo, besenza ukuba ibe ngumzuzu omnandi nozele lulonwabo.
Izinto zethu zokudlala azifezekanga kuphela ngeKrisimesi kodwa zikwalungele imihla yokuzalwa, iiholide, okanye nasiphi na isiganeko esikhethekileyo. Benza izipho ezimangalisayo ezizisa uvuyo olukhawulezileyo kunye nolonwabo oluhlala ixesha elide. Nokuba umntwana wakho uyayithanda into yokudlala okanye uthanda izilwanyana ezithandekayo, ingqokelela yethu ngokuqinisekileyo iya kubeka uncumo ebusweni babo.
Siyakuqonda ukubaluleka kokhuseleko, ngakumbi xa kuziwa kwizinto zokudlala zabantwana. Qiniseka, iimveliso zethu ziye zavavanywa ngokucokisekileyo kwaye zihlangabezana nayo yonke imigangatho yokhuseleko eyimfuneko. Unokuzipha ngokuzithemba iithoyi zethu zokudlala, usazi ukuba azithandeki nje kuphela kodwa zikhuselekile ukuba abantwana bakho bazonwabele.
Kweli xesha leKrisimesi, masisasaze imincili yeholide ngezinto zethu zokudlala ezimangalisayo. Ngokudibana ngakunye okudlalwayo, abantwana baya kudala iinkumbulo ezihlala ixesha elide kwaye bazintywilisele kwihlabathi lokuhleka kunye nokucinga. Sizabalazela ukuzisa ulonwabo ebantwaneni ehlabathini lonke, yaye sinethemba lokuba izinto zethu zokudlala ziya kwenza kanye oko. Yenza le Krisimesi ikhetheke ngokwenene ngengqokelela yethu yezinto zokudlala ezincinci, kwaye ubukele njengoko ubuso babo bukhanya luvuyo kunye nommangaliso.
Ixesha lokuposa: Oct-24-2023
